OSHO, I ALWAYS DREAM OF SEX AND SEX AND SEX -- WHY?
Your dreams reflect how you are living your life.
When your life is really harmonious, lived consciously, dreams disappear.
Your whole sleep becomes dreamless.
that happens to every meditator.
Your unconscious is trying to convey a certain message to you, that you are doing something wrong.
dreams are reflections.
The day one has known what sex energy really is, one has transcended. Sex disappears, but it disappears not by denying. But by understanding. And the disappearance is not really the destruction of the energy but a transformation. In existence nothing is ever destroyed, things are only transformed
OSHO, I DON'T ACCEPT YOUR CRITICISM OF SIGMUND FREUD.
…DO YOU ACCEPT A SANNYASIN WHO SOMETIMES SAYS NO TO WHAT YOU SAY?
I AM NOT LESS NEUROTIC THAN FREUD, BUT I THINK THAT I CAN BECOME CREATIVE ONLY IF I LEARN TO ACCEPT THE NEUROTIC PART OF MYSELF. WHAT DO YOU SAY TO THIS?
Freud's whole life he was condemning homosexuality, and he had deep homosexual tendencies.
It happens almost always that whatsoever you condemn in others is really your inner problem. The other is just a scapegoat.
That is true. That's what I teach here: accept it! Freud never accepted his neurotic part. He not only never accepted it: he tried to deny it, he tried to cover it up.
he was afraid of his own disciples, that they would become competitors or they may prove themselves more important than he was. He could not conceive anybody being more important in the world of psychoanalysis.
This is a very poor kind of mind, a very ordinary, mediocre mind.
Your no is as much respected as your yes.
OSHO, WHY IS THE NEW GENERATION SUCH A PROBLEM TO THE PARENTS?
Intelligence brings problems. And it is natural that the new generation should be more intelligent.
That's how evolution happens.
that is what offends the parents. Parents would like to pretend that they are all-knowing.
They are not really a problem: your expectation that they should respect you is impossible.
start respecting them.
Respecting the new.
And if you respect your children, they will respect you.
Chapter 12: Who Am I?
HOW TO SACRIFICE THE EGO?
The ego is just all idea: it has no substance in it.
You give it reality by believing in it. You can withdraw belief and the reality disappears, evaporates.
The ego is a kind of absence. Because you don't know yourself, hence the ego.
The moment you know yourself, no ego is found.
The ego is like darkness; darkness has no positive existence of its own; it ii simply the absence of light.
You cannot fight with darkness, or can you?
Darkness is only the absence of light -- so is ego: absence of self-knowledge. You cannot sacrifice it.
On the contrary, I say: Try to see where the ego is. Look DEEP into it; try to locate it, where it exists.
Going into it means bringing awareness into your house, bringing light into darkness. Be alert, watchful. Watch the ways of the ego, how it functions, how it manages at all.
And you will be surprised: the deeper you go into it, the less it is found. And when you have penetrated to the very core of your being, you will find something totally different which is not ego, which is egolessness. It is self, supreme self -- it is God. You have disappeared as a separate entity; you are no more an island, now you are part of the whole.
Try to understand the ego. Analyse it, dissect it, watch it, observe it, from as many angles as possible.
otherwise the greatest egoist is born: the person who thinks he is humble, the person who thinks that he has no ego.
The ego of the sinner is more easily dropped than the ego of the saint.
OSHO, WHAT IS RATIONALIZATION?
…I AM ASKING THIS QUESTION BECAUSE MY HUSBAND IS A PROFESSOR OF PHILOSOPHY AND WHATSOEVER I SAY HE ALMOST ALWAYS SAYS IT IS NOTHING BUT A RA TIONALIZA TION.
my own experience of women is that they are not great rationalizers -- men are bigger rationalizers, because women live more intuitively, more instinctively, and man lives more through the head, through reason.
It is a camouflage. It is better to be authentic, true, rather than hiding yourself behind smoke screens.
rationalization is one of the ways of wearing masks.
Be true. Be authentic. There is no need to be untrue, because the more untrue you become, the farther and farther you will be from God.
Drop all false faces so that you can find your original face. And to find the original face is the greatest blessing and the greatest benediction in life.
OSHO, WHEN THIS QUESTION ARISES -- WHO AM I? I GET VERY AFRAID
…IS THERE SOMETHING TO BE SAID ABOUT IT?
Whoever wants to go deep into the question, into the quest, of "Who am I?" is bound to feel fear at a certain point.
Why? Because there comes a point where you cross the boundary of the ego.
it looks like death.
And up to now that has been your identity. Up to now that's what you have been thinking you are. And suddenly it starts evaporating.
It is a rebirth.
It is like the seed dying into the soil. The seed must be feeling afraid, nervous, trembling.
the ego cannot trust that there is anything more than itself.
It is only the people who take the risk of going into danger who really live; others only pass through life, but they really don't live. Others only vegetate; others only move through empty gestures.
And one day it becomes irresistible -- one has to cross the line. And that day is the greatest day in a human being's life, when you drop your old identity and enter into the unknown -- you have encountered God, you have come home.
OSHO, I ALWAYS BELIEVED THAT AN AMERICAN, A CHINESE, AN AFRICAN, A SWEDE, AN INDIAN, COULD BE HAPPY
…AND CONTENT AND COMMUNICATE WITH ONE ANOTHER DESPITE THEIR VARYING COLOURS, HABITS, BELIEFS, ETCETERA,
JUST AS LONG AS THEY WERE NATURAL AND HONEST WITH THEMSELVES AND EACH OTHER.
WHY IS MANKIND MAKING THIS IMPOSSIBLE FOR MANKIND?
The belief is the root cause of all conflict.
Belief is the way of division. Humanity can be one only when people drop beliefs.
My own experience is this, that all those who have become enlightened in the world -- and Moses is enlightened, and Zarathustra is enlightened, and Lao Tzu is enlightened and Mohammed and Jesus and Krishna, Buddha, Mahavira, Kabir, and many many more -- what they have experienced is the same. But still their personalities are so different, their individuality is so unique, that their expressions are utterly different and you cannot force by ally strategy to make it appear that they are saying the same thing -- they are not.
Their experience is the same, their ultimate experience is the same, but their choice of how life should be lived, how that ultimate experience should be approached, is totally different. Their paths are different, their goal may be the same -- but the goal will be known only when you have arrived, not before that.
the world is richer because there is a Koran and there is a Gita and there is a Dhammapada. The world is richer because Zarathustra happened, Lao Tzu happened, Buddha happened; the world is richer because there is Nanak and Kabir and Farid. So many different flowers! The world is a beautiful garden.
Your idea, Darius, that people can live in harmony even though they have different beliefs is wrong.
Religion has to be found by your own heart. All religions are good. All religions are different. All religions are ways: They reach the same goal.
A real man does not believe. Either he knows or he does not know.
And the day you know, do you think you will believe then? Then there will be no need to believe. You don't believe in the sun! You don't see people fighting that the sun exists, that the sun does not exist, that the sun rises in the east or the sun rises in the west, south, north -- you don't see people fighting.
If you ask me, "Do you believe in God?" I will say, "No, because I know God is. I need not believe." Knowing is the real thing; belief is just a camouflage, a cover-up.
Help people to drop beliefs. Help people to become enquirers. Help people to start functioning from not knowing. And that is the state of meditation: to function from a state of not knowing is to function meditatively. To function from the state of knowledge is to miss the whole point. Knowledge is always old and life is never old. Knowledge and life never meet.
Animals are natural, but you are not natural. Trees are natural, but you are not natural. And what has made you unnatural and artificial? Your belief system.
it is very difficult to drop the belief system. And how can you be honest if you believe? It is a contradiction in terms, to be honest and to believe. If somebody says, "I believe in God," he is saying, "I don't know -- I have heard, I have been taught, I have been told. I believe in God; I don't know myself " How can he be honest? This is the beginning of dishonesty. Not knowing himself, and still believing, what more dishonesty can there be?
dropping the beliefs, your energy is freed, and that same energy becomes enquiry, and that same energy can take you to the ultimate truth.
OSHO, WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT THE STATEMENT THAT LIFE IS STRANGER THAN FICTION?
fiction is only a reflection of life.
It is just a shadow of life.
Life is really unbelievable, incredible. It should not be, and it is. It is utterly mysterious.
But you become aware of the strangeness of a fictitious story and you never become aware of the strangeness of life, because you take it for granted.
You take it for granted as the fish takes the ocean for granted -- and it never becomes aware of it. How can the fish be aware of the ocean? It was born in the ocean, it has lived in the ocean; from the very beginning the ocean was there.
Just as you are not aware of the air and the weight of the air, you are not aware of the gravitation and the pull of the gravitation, in the same way.
the fish is not aware of the ocean, and in the same way you are not aware of the incredible life that surrounds you within and without.
Stop taking life for granted, and immediately you are constantly in awe. Each moment becomes a surprise, each moment becomes such a revelation of mystery, and life takes a totally different colour and flavour.
Then you are no more bored, then you are no more dull. Then life is excitement, exhilaration, ecstasy.
There is no need to think -- I know -- it is, it is so. Thinking is a lower activity, seeing is a higher activity.
it is my existential experience.
Just watch life… and you will be able to laugh. It IS absurd, it IS ridiculous, it IS strange, it is miraculous. No dream can be more dreamlike than life, and no poetry can be more poetic than life -- and no joke can create more laughter than life.
Chapter 13: Very Few Find the Path
man is the past and the future. The past means the animal, and the future means the divine.
And between the two is the present moment, between the two is man's existence -- divided, torn apart, pulled in diametrically opposite directions.
If man looks backwards he is an animal. That's why science cannot believe that man is anything more.
science only searches into the past.
Religion looks into the possible.
Science dissects the seed and cannot find any flowers there.
Violence, sex, drugs, they all help you, at Least for the time being, temporarily, to fall back, to become all animal. But this cannot become a permanent state of affairs.
Time always goes ahead.
Evolution goes on and on and there is no way to prevent it or to force it backwards. Hence all efforts of men to become animals and find peace are doomed to fail.
either repress the divine -- through violence, through sex, through drugs -- forget about the divine. That is one solution.
Then the second suggestion that comes to the mind is: repress the animal, forget the animal.
Man thinks almost in the same way as the ostrich.
By closing his eyes he thinks now there is no enemy because he cannot see him.
you cannot repress the animal because the animal has great energy. It has been your whole past; it is millions and millions of years old. It has deep roots in you; you cannot so easily get rid of it, just by closing your eyes. You are simply being stupid.
And the animal is your base, it is your very foundation. You are born as an animal;
when a man becomes a Buddha -- then the real difference happens. Then he is no more an animal. Then he is simply divine -- but how to attain it?
Mahatma Gandhi wrote that even at the age of seventy he was having sexual dreams. At the age of seventy, why sexual dreams? He said, "In the day I have become disciplined -- the whole day not even a single thought of sex comes to me. But in the night I am incapable, I am unconscious, so the hole discipline and control disappears."
Sigmund Freud's insight is very valuable, that to know about a man you have to know his dreams, not his waking life.
Your dreams are far more real, because you are not there to distort, you are fast asleep; the conscious mind is asleep and the unconscious is free to have its say.
the unconscious is your true mind, because the conscious is only one tenth of your total mind. Nine tenths is the unconscious -- nine times more powerful, nine times bigger than your conscious mind.
You will go on throwing them into the unconscious, into the darkness of the basement, thinking that by not seeing them you are getting rid of them. You are not getting rid of them. Not even a man like Mahatma Gandhi.
Ninety-nine percent of religious people go on repressing, and whenever you repress something it goes deeper in you.
Then it comes in such subtle ways, such devious ways, such deceptive ways, with masks, that you cannot even recognize that it is sexuality.
Let it be understood once and for all: no energy can ever be repressed. Energy can be transformed, but never repressed.
The real religion consists not of repressing the animal but of purifying the animal, of raising the animal to the divine, using the animal, riding on the animal to go to the divine. It can become a tremendously powerful vehicle, because it is power.
Sex can be used as a great energy -- you call ride on it to the very door of God. But if you repress it you will become more and more entangled.
If you are alone you will have to fall asleep once in a while, but if you are moving with friends at least one can always be awake. And in a desert, or in a forest, in a jungle, it is needed that at least one should be awake.
This mind is illusory, hence he calls it 'maya -- all illusion. It is NOT really there; it has no substance, but still it persists continuously -- day in, day out, your mind continues. Thoughts, dreams, desires, imagination, memory… the traffic goes on and on. All is non- substantial! If you wake up, suddenly you will find all the dreams, all the desires, all the thoughts, have disappeared. But how to drop this mind? Who is going to drop it? If you try to drop it, you are the mind.
You can Leave the house, you can renounce your wife, your children, you can go away from the world -- it is very substantial! But how will you leave your mind? It will be with you.
When Bayazid, a Sufi saint, went to see his Master, he re-nounced his family, his friends, and he went to the Master.
Bayazid entered he said, "Now I have come, I have renounced all -- please accept me." The Master looked at Bayazid and looked around and said, "And why have you brought this crowd with you?"
And the Master said, "Don't look back -- look in. All those people that you have left behind are there."
And Bayazid closed his eyes… and the Master was right, he was not crazy. The wife was still crying, the children were telling him, "Daddy, don't go.". And when he closed his eyes they were all there.
And the Master said, "Bayazid, it is easy to renounce the world, but how are you going to renounce the mind? Because the mind is the real world! They are all there. You will sit meditating, and you will remember your wife;
Even this robe is well woven -- my mind has played a trick. I am still as much concerned about my clothes as before.
You need not have a perfect screen. The film is the same, even projected on the wall; the wall may be rough, may be a poor man's house wall, but it makes no difference -- the film is the same.
why do people use beautiful clothes? So that they look special. Now I am wearing a robe, but still, deep down, the same desire persists.
I have left the house, I have moved to the cave, with only a small bag, but then one day I recognize that the cave has become the home, the cave has become the house. And the small possession that I brought with me can function perfectly well for my possessiveness. My possessiveness remains the same! Now if somebody enters into the cave, I am going to say, "Get out! This is my cave."
So I left the cave and I left that small possession and became a wanderer, but nothing changes. Now I feel great that I am a wanderer, that I am no ordinary monk who lives in the shelter and safety of a cave. I live in insecurity -- look! This is how one should live. I am a wanderer with no security, no safety. Now this wandering has become a prop to my ego.
Now I have become a vagabond, but great pride has arisen in me.
You can stand naked in the sun -- it doesn't matter: it will be the same mind. How is one going to drop the mind? It comes from the backdoor; it finds new ways to enter back into you.
If you repress sex you will become angry; the whole energy that was becoming sex will become anger. And it is better to be sexual than to be angry. In sex at least there is something of love; in anger there is only pure violence and nothing else. If sex is repressed, the person becomes violent -- either to others he will be violent, or to himself.
These are the two possibilities: either he will become a sadist and will torture others, or he will become a masochist and will torture himself. But torture he will.
Do you know, down the ages, the soldiers have not been allowed to have sexual relationships? Why? Because if soldiers are allowed to have sexual relationships they don't gather enough anger in them, enough violence in them. Their sex becomes a release, they become soft, and a soft person cannot fight. Starve the soldier of sex and he is bound to fight better.
Now he is going crazy to enter; now he can do anything. A great perverted desire has entered into his being now. Repressed sex -- he would like to enter into somebody's body through a bayonet, through a sword…
If love spreads, war will disappear -- both cannot exist together.
repress sex, anger bubbles up; you repress anger. But he is a close observer, a very minute observer. He says: The moment I repressed my anger I became greedy.
in India Mahavira taught non-violence, and the result has been that all the followers of Mahavira became the most greedy people in the world.
So he repressed his greed and the ultimate result is: he has become a great egoist; he finds himself being very proud. "Look! I have repressed sex, repressed anger, repressed greed - - I have done this, I have done that. I have done impossible things!" Now a great 'I' arises, the ego becomes strengthened.
A non-repressed person becomes a non-egoist; he cannot carry the ego. There is no prop to support it. He becomes humble, he becomes simple, he becomes ordinary, he has no claim -- he knows he is nothing.
Repression is not the way: transformation is the way.
If sexuality is there, don't repress it otherwise you will create a new complexity -- which will be more difficult to tackle. And if you repress anger, greed is even more difficult then, and if you repress greed, arises ego, pride, which is the MOST difficult thing to drop.
Move back: from pride to greed, from greed to anger, from anger to sex.
The transformation can happen only if first you accept your natural being.
accept your nature with totality.
To be guilty, to feel guilty, is to be irreligious. In the past you have been told just the opposite: Feel guilty and you are religious.
leave one thing, but you cling to another.
You go on changing things, but the clinging remains.
How can the clinging disappear?
Only by understanding, awareness, meditation; not by doing anything about it.
The whole miracle was this: that there were no ghosts -- there are no ghosts anywhere. But now this idea that he had a protection helped him.
But then a new problem arose: he started becoming afraid that somebody might steal it.
The story is significant: this is not the way to drop the ghosts! You will have to cling to something or other. The ghosts are not to be dropped; your eyes have to be opened so that you can see that there are no ghosts at all. The problem disappears. The problem is not solved but dissolved.
And unless you drop ALL clinging -- ALL clinging, I say -- unless you are ready to be nothing, empty, nobody, with no protection, with no security, no safety, unless you are ready to be in that kind of space… which will look like death in the beginning. And it is a kind of death: the old dies, but then the new arises. And the new can arise only when the old is gone. The old has to cease for the new to be.
then suddenly from your own inner source a great light wells up, a great bliss wells up. You are transformed.
Mind is not dropped -- it is a ghost. And if you try methods to drop it, you will cling to the methods.
The true way is that of understanding your mind, not of dropping it. The true way is: sitting silently and watching your mind -- all its cunning ways, subtle ways, all its strategies -- just watch, just be a witness to your mind.
And, slowly slowly, by witnessing it you will understand what games it has been playing with you. You stop it from one door, it comes from another door; you stop it from that door, it makes a third door -- and it goes on and on, ad nauseam.
Watch…. Don't renounce the world, and don't try to drop the mind. Just become more alert. In that alertness, suddenly mind disappears, and with the mind disappears the whole world. And when there is no mind and no world, God is.
Chapter 14: Life is a Lovesong
OSHO, I KEEP THINKING OF MY LIFE IN TERMS OF GOAL OR DESTINATION
…WAITING TO WAKE UP SOME DAY AND FIND MYSELF ENLIGHTENED, AND I WORRY THAT OTHERS WILL REACH BEFORE ME.
TODAY IS A TENSION. WHY IS ETERNITY SO DIFFICULT TO FEEL AND REMEMBER?
YOU KEEP REMINDING ME BUT I KEEP FORGETTING AND LOSE PATIENCE. WHY AM I SUCH A FOOD?
AND THEN I THINK 'SO WHAT?' AND THEN I WANT TO SCREAM 'NO MORE!' BUT GO ON.
MAN HAS BEEN CONDITIONED DOWN THE CENTURIES FOR GOALS, destinations, purposes, meanings.
the goal, the meaning, the bliss, the paradise -- it is never now here.
Because of these ideologies you cannot allow yourself to relax in the moment.
it is a strategy of creating ambition in you. And ambition is neurosis.
The first thing that you will have to learn is to be a witness to all that goes on in the mind, because the mind is a social phenomenon -- it is not a God-given gift. It is social exploitation; it is society that makes a mind in you, and through that mind controls you, keeps you imprisoned, chained, reduces you to a slave.
And you are not the mind! You are the witness who can see the mind very easily. You can see the thoughts moving in your consciousness.
And this is what meditation is all about: creating a distance between you and your mind. Once the distance is there, you will be surprised that the whole mind structure is your imprisonment -- you are free from it because you are separate from it. Once you start enjoying the freedom from the mind all goals will disappear, all destinations will disappear.
Mind can only live in goals, because mind can only exist in the future.
Mind has no present tense at all; either it is past or it is future -- it is always in the non-existential.
God is not a goal, nirvana is not a goal, enlightenment is not a goal, it is not an achievement -- just the contrary. When you have forgotten ALL goals, when you have dropped the whole achieving mind, enlightenment is -- enlightenment is a state of no-mind.
And enlightenment is nothing special. It is the most ordinary, natural phenomenon. It looks special because you make a goal out of it.
a totally different kind of presence happens, which does not belong to the person; it is only a presence, not a person at all. And how can he be special? -- because in the present moment he finds that there is no purpose in life. The whole purpose is mind-imposed.
The trees are there for no purpose at all, and the stars are there for no purpose at all. Purpose is a man-created concept. Rivers are not flowing for any purpose, and the oceans are there not for any purpose. Except for man there is nothing like purpose anywhere else. Life simply is. Existence utterly is -- it is not a means to some end;
There is no meaning in life. Life is utterly beyond meaning.
Life is not a logical process. It is poetry, it is a lovesong -- without any meaning, yet it is utterly beautiful. In fact, when something has a meaning, it can't be beautiful -- it is utilitarian. The rose is beautiful because it has no utility at all.
a hundred-rupee note has no beauty; it has utility, it has meaning, it has purpose, it is a means to some end.
you learn a wrong habit of losing that which is and of thinking of something which is not. Every day it will happen: each tomorrow will come as today.
Their lives could have become great oases, but they remain deserts. And the basic reason for people's dryness is goal-orientation.
Postponing is a way of avoiding. Don't you want to be enlightened right now?
If I say to you I can make you enlightened right now… you will say, "Just give me a little time to think. I will come tomorrow, because I have to do many more things before I become enlightened.
Yes, I want to be enlightened, but not right now.
do you think a day will come when all your invest-ments and all your worries and all your acts are complete? Will there ever come a day when you are finished with the activities of your so-called life, and you can come and say, "Right now I am ready"?
"Some day I will drink." If you are thirsty, drink right now. Nothing else is more important.
Enlightenment is not an effort to achieve something. It is a state of effortlessness. It is a state of no-action. It is a state of tremendous passivity, receptivity. You are not doing anything, you are not thinking anything, you are not planning for anything, you are not doing yoga exercises, and you are not doing any technique, any method -- you are simply existing, just existing.
Enlightenment is not an experience at all. It is not that you will be able to walk on water, that you will be able to raise the dead back to life, that you will be able to cure the blind and the deaf and the dumb, that you will be able to do miracles. Enlightenment has nothing to do with any such thing.
Enlightenment is a simple realization that everything is as it should be. That is the definition of enlightenment: everything is as it should be, everything is utterly perfect as it is. That feeling… and you are suddenly at home. Nothing is being missed. You are part, an organic part of this tremendous, beautiful whole. You are relaxed in it, surrendered in it. You don't exist separately -- all separation has disappeared.
You have fallen into she whole and the whole has fallen into you. The drop has dropped into the ocean and the ocean has dropped into the drop. It is impossible to say anything more about it. It is impossible to say, in fact, anything about it. It can only be experienced.
don't go on postponing it, because it is available now. Now or never.
Enlightenment is not like money, is not like political power. It is not like anything that you know in life -- it is absolutely unlike anything that you have known or will ever know. It is unique in the sense that nothing like it exists in existence. It is just itself; it cannot be compared with anything. It is its own comparison.
how to drop this hypnosis? how to drop this conditioning? Watch it.
See how it is torturing you, how it is making you more and more miserable every day, and how it is creating barriers between you and that which is. Just go on seeing it!
You drop the mind, or it drops of its own accord because you have seen the futility of it. And even if for a single moment the mind is not there, enlightenment is there.
Only an effortless silence -- JUST SITTING, DOING NOTHING, AND THE SPRING COMES, AND THE GRASS GROWS BY ITSELF.
OSHO, PLEASE, I WANT TO COME HOME.
I am shocking you into awareness that you have never left the home in the first place.
The biblical story says Adam and Eve were expelled from the Garden of Eden. I would like to tell you: they have never been expelled. You have heard a wrong rumour. They have only fallen asleep -- they ARE in the Garden of Eden, because there is no other place to be. The whole existence is God's, the whole existence is his garden. To where can he expel anyone?
They have fallen asleep. By eating the fruit of knowledge they have fallen asleep, they have become mind.
Once you become knowledgeable, your consciousness goes through a shift: it moves from the heart to the head. The heart falls asleep and the head becomes awake. The head cannot know the mystery of God; the head is incapable of understanding that you are already in God, that you cannot be anywhere else.
You need not renounce your wife -- she is your life. You need not renounce your husband, you need not renounce your children. But one thing you need to renounce -- that is knowedgeability. One thing you need to renounce -- that is your mind. And see the irony: people renounce the world, but they don't renounce their minds.
Renounce being a Christian, renounce being a Hindu, because this is renunciation of the mind. And don't renounce the world -- the world belongs to God. The world is beautiful, and it is tremendously beautiful if you can see it without the mind interfering.
Start being more and more silent, because the chattering mind will not allow you to know that you have come home. The inner talk has to stop. In those gaps, in those intervals, the still small voice of the heart will be heard.
by and by, you become so skillful in deceiving others that you start deceiving yourself too -- and that's what the mind goes on doing: it deceives others, it deceives you.
Your mind is saying, "Search for the home, seek God. Make efforts to become enlightened." Now the mind is creating new goals for you. Once the goal grips you, you are in the hands of the mind. If you can say to the mind, "I have arrived -- get lost! Now there is no more to go, nowhere to go. This is home. This is enlightenment,"
The Devil is an ancient metaphor for the mind. It goes on watching you, what you are doing. If you are nourishing to it, then it is okay; if you are going away from it, it starts creating trouble for you.
Sex is love: anger is hate -- how can they be the same? The mind has taken just the polar opposite to hide itself You will need great intelligence to decipher, otherwise you will be deceived. And then anger will torture you.
And if you repress anger, it becomes greed. Now who can ever think logically that anger can become greed? They don't seem to be connected at all. Unless you are a real observer of your inner happenings you will not be able to see the connection. Mind jumps to such new faces, takes such new masks!
just a little intelligence, a little candle of light inside you of watching, of silently watching and seeing what the mind is doing, and slowly slowly your intelligence will become stronger.
Intelligence is not intellect; intellect is part of mind, intelligence is part of the heart.
When I talk about intelligence I always mean the heart -- something happening in you, not coming from the outside. If it comes from the outside, it creates intellect; if it comes from within, it is intelligence. Help your intelligence to grow.
OSHO, WHY HAVE I ALWAYS BEEN IN SUCH A HURRY?
…TODAY I SAW SO CLEARLY THAT IT WAS MY WAY OF KEEPING THE DIVINE AT A DISTANCE, AND I FELT INCREDIBLY SAD, AND SAW THE ABSURDITY OF THIS PATTERN.
The greatest art in life is to learn how to act in a relaxed way. Action is a must -- you cannot live without action -- but action can be almost inaction. That's what Lao Tzu means.
WU-WEI means action without action -- doing a thing in such a way that you are not tense in doing it.
A Buddha, a Jesus, a Lao Tzu, a Zarathustra, they are not religious people in the sense Christians, Mohammedans and Buddhists are. They are very balanced, they are so whole, they are so tranquil, they cannot become parts of crowds, they cannot fall that low.
People join together in churches just because alone they feel so afraid of their inner neurosis -- they would like to join with people of the same kind so they can feel at ease, that they are not alone in the difficulty.
The really healthy person is not stuck anywhere, he is not stagnant, he is dynamic. He can be in great action and yet he can remain inactive.
The East has remained contented with the bullock cart. There have been great scientists in the East, but they never worked. They never worked hard enough to create better roads, better vehicles, aeroplanes, spaceships -- they were not interested in hurry. What is the point? Why rush?
man wants to travel faster than light. And nobody asks, "Where do you want to go? And even if you reach there, what are you going to do there?" You can reach the moon, you can reach some day some star, but what will you do? You will do the same thing that you are doing in California, because you will be the same person.
You cannot remain peaceful there either;
The West is too much interested in speed, too much in action. And the action is futile, because it is simply the occupation of a neurotic mind. And the East is not interested in action at all; that is again another kind of neurosis, the opposite kind -- people are lazy.
MAN NEEDS A BALANCE, and that balance is possible only if you learn the art of being active and yet remaining inactive inside.
Work is beautiful if it can be done without any tension, if it can be done playfully, if it can be done without any hurry and yet without relapsing into laziness. It is a very subtle and delicate art. Then you are neither Eastern nor Western -- that's what I call the new man.
The very speedy person is so much in speed that he cannot be watchful of what is happening around him; he is rushing with such force that he cannot see anywhere else, he is focussed, obsessed with some goal.
And the lazy person is so lazy, so unalert, so unconscious, that he cannot see.
Both are blind.
You have to find a synthesis. Be alert as the active person is, and be relaxed as the lazy person is. And once both these two are there together, you are balanced, and your life will have a new flavour, a new joy, a new ecstasy, which knows no bounds.
There are these people who are constantly joining this club and that, and this organization and that. They are simply afraid of being themselves, simply afraid of being left alone. There are people who are constantly rushing -- don't ask where, they themselves don't know. But in the rush they are occupied, and the occupation keeps them away from themselves, away from looking into their own inner hollowness.
In fact, the inner emptiness is the greatest experience of life -- that is enlightenment.
knowing that there is nothing at all, no person, no ego, no identity, is the greatest experience, the ultimate joy.
People keep themselves occupied the whole day, and then they fall asleep and become occupied in their dreams.
Meditation means giving a few minutes to non-occupation. Neera, start giving at least one hour to non-occupation. Just sit doing nothing. In the beginning it will be very difficult -- the MOST difficult thing in the world in the beginning, in the end the most easy. It is so easy, that's why it is so difficult.
For a few minutes, a few hours, as much time as is possible, just sit silently. In the beginning it is difficult. It will take at least three months to six months to be able to sit silently doing nothing.
When joy is inside the heart, when silence is inside, peace surrounds you, grace surrounds you, God surrounds you.
OSHO, PLEASE, ONE DAY IN THIS SERIES CAN YOU FINISH THE LECTURE ON A SERIOUS NOTE SO THAT I CAN SEE YOU LEAVE?
…EVERY DAY WHEN YOU END WITH A JOKE, I LAUGH SO MUCH THAT TEARS FILL MY EYES AND YOU BECOME JUST A WHITE BLOB DRIFTING THROUGH A SEA OF GREENERY.
IT IS VERY DIFFICULT FOR ME because today I have chosen really a very juicy joke. But I will resist the temptation….
Chapter 15: Disappearing you will feel such Freedom
OSHO, I AM AFRAID OF DEATH
…YET AT THE SAME TIME IT HAS AN INCREDIBLE ATTRACTION FOR ME. WHAT DOES IT MEAN?
DEATH IS THE GREATEST MYSTERY OF LIFE. Life has many mysteries, but there is nothing comparable to death.
In fact, death will reveal to you your true identity; death will take away all your masks and will reveal your original face.
Death will for the first time make it possible for you to encounter your innermost, interiormost subjectivity as it is, without any camouflage, without any pretense, without any pseudo personality.
Hence, everybody is afraid of death and everybody is attracted.
Your form will die, but you have something formless in you too.
Death creates fear if you think of the ego, and death appeals to you, attracts you, if you think of your true self.
that is one of the most beautiful experiences of life: the body goes on living, on the outside you go on moving the same as you were before, but inside the ego is no more, the ego has died.
OSHO TODAY IN THE SAMADHI TANK I COULD HAVE SWORN I FELT YOUR PRESENCE FOR A FEW MOMENTS.
…I BECAME QUITE FRIGHTENED. OTHER PEOPLE HAVE SPOKEN OF FEELING YOUR PRESENCE EVEN AS FAR AWAY AS ENGLAND. WHAT IS THIS?
IS IT IMAGINATION? OR PROJECTION? OR SOMETHING ELSE?
Remain available to strange experiences in life.
That's my own observation: many people have told me their experiences and they have said that they have never told anybody else before, because they have always been afraid that they may be thought crazy.
The modern mind is much too satisfied with Aristotle, and because of it there is so much boredom. People look very dull, because the sense of the mysterious is no more there which goes on keeping you fresh, young, which goes on keeping you wondering.
OSHO, I HAVE TRIED TO THINK OF A QUESTION I COULD ASK YOU
…THAT WOULD SHOW SWAMI PREM CHINMAYA THAT I UNDERSTAND MORE FULLY THE LOVE HE SHARES HERE AT THE ASHRAM.
SO WHAT ARE YOU DOING TONIGHT AFTER DARSHAN?
For many years I have ceased to exist, I have died. I no more function as a person.
I am not a doer.
I am not the doer in the first place. I am not concerned with the results.
we are not doers. Sometimes life happens, sometimes death happens -- we have to be witnesses of both. And we have to be thankful for both.
OSHO TODAY I OVERHEARD SOMEONE SAY THAT YOU HAD PROBLEMS -- DO YOU?
Each sannyasin brings many problems.
And because I have none of my own, you can drop your problems into me and they disappear. They have no place to cling to. They simply disappear into the abyss that I have become.
OSHO, SOMETHING IS HAPPENING THAT I CANNOT EXPLAIN.
…IT IS NOT EVEN SOMETHING I KNOW, ONLY SOMETHING I SENSE.
Man can know much more than he can say, and man can sense much more than he can know, and man can be much more than he can sense. And you have to be aware of all these layers.
That which can be said is the most superficial; much more can be known.
Man can live a life either of doing or of having or of being.
Doing is the most superficial; better than doing is having.
The poor person lives in the world of doing, the rich person lives in the world of having.
But the best is the world of being.
The poor person can also reach the world of being without passing through having, but it will be very difficult -- very very difficult, because you can renounce only that which you have. If you don't have it, it is very very difficult to renounce it. Only a rare man like Kabir can do that miracle: he can renounce that which he does not have. He can understand even that which he does not possess.
If somebody moves from poverty into spirituality, he has great intelligence.
Doing is a means to having. When doing succeeds, you have. But when you have, everything starts failing, everything starts looking futile, everything starts looking childish. And to know that everything in this world is futile is the beginning of turning in, of conversion.
There are poor people who can explain whatsoever is happening to them -- that means nothing special is happening to them. All that is happening is so superficial that language is adequate to express it.
There is no need, and don't try to explain it otherwise it will stop happening -- because explanation is done by the head and the happening happens in the heart.
don't allow the head to interfere. Accept the unexplained as unexplained.
Live it! Experience it! Taste it! Be drowned in it!
Knowing means clarity; and if you know, you can explain. Knowing means you have already explained it to yourself -- if you can explain it to yourself, why not to others?
Sensing means that you are not even able to explain it to yourself; it is just a feeling. And if you try to grab it, it disappears.
The greater truths have to be approached indirectly, you should not attack them directly; you should be very delicate, very indirect.
Look at other stars and suddenly the small star starts appearing. It is available only to an indirect gaze, not a direct gaze.
So is the situation with inner experiences: don't look directly -- the inner experiences are very shy.
God is not the creator: God is the world. He has become the trees, he has become the rocks, he has become the river, he has become you and me. There is no other God except this existence.
God is not separate from existence; he is not like a painter who paints on the canvas;
God is like a dancer who dances, and the dancer and the dance are always the same -- they cannot be separated. You cannot have the dance separate from the dancer; because when he is not dancing he is no more a dancer.
God is the dancer, and the world is his dance -- and you are part of his dancing gestures.
Keep it inside you as a secret. Remember, great things need secrecy. Just as the seed goes into the earth and remains there, then the great tree is born; just as the child has to grow in the mother's womb…. These are great secrets. When they start happening to you, keep them deep down in your heart, let them grow there.
OSHO, ARE THE POLITICIANS REALLY AS STUPID AS YOU SAY THEY ARE?
THEY ARE MORE STUPID THAN I SAY.
unless a person is stupid he cannot be a politician.
What is politics basically? The desire to dominate others -- and that is the most stupid thing in life.
The intelligent person tries to be a master of himself, and the stupid person tries to be master of others.
If you are not a master of yourself, then trying to be a master of others is just a substitute to befool yourself, to deceive yourself, and that is what the stupidity consists of.
OSHO, A FEW DAYS AGO IN LECTURE I REALIZED THAT
…WHEN I AM RELAXED THE BODY GOES INTO A MOST COMFORTABLE POSTURE OF ITS OWN ACCORD.
IT MUST BE JUST THE SAME WITH LIFE. IS THIS THE BEGINNING OF TRUST?
You have to be alert and passive, you have to be watchful and receptive. This is the whole secret of life.
Small things need to be done -- if you want more money, the money is not going to come on its own; you will have to run after it. If you want political power, it is not going to come to you on its own -- you will have to fight for it, you will have to struggle for it.
Small things are those which never HAPPEN, which never come from God. Man has to struggle and do them.
And great things are those which if you try to do them you will miss. Great things happen only when you are in a total relaxation. That's what must be happening.
The body has great wisdom -- allow it. Allow it more and more to follow its own wisdom. And whenever you have time, just relax. Let the breathing go on on its own, don't interfere. Our habit to interfere has become so ingrained that you cannot even breathe without interfering.
Just let the breath be as it is; the body knows exactly what it needs. If it needs more oxygen it will breathe more; if it needs less oxygen it will breathe less.
You are cleaning the floor or working in the kitchen or in the once -- keep that relaxedness. Action need not be an interference in your relaxed state. And then there is a beauty, a great beauty, to your activity. Your activity will have the flavour of meditativeness.
Yes, Mukti Gandha, it is exactly so with your whole life -- this is the secret. But people go on making unnecessary efforts. Sometimes their efforts are their barriers; their efforts are the problems that they are creating.
Just watch…. There are things where if you push, you will miss. Don't push the river at all, and don't try to go upstream. The river is flowing towards the ocean of its own accord -- just be part of it, be part of its journey. It will take you to the ultimate. Go relaxed, dancing, singing, to God.
There is no need to make any effort. Why? Because God is our intrinsic nature. We ARE Gods already. If we relax, we will know; if we don't relax, we will not know. Relaxation becomes the door to that great knowing -- enlightenment.
WHY DO I MISUNDERSTAND YOU, OSHO, CONTINUOUSLY?
That 'I' is the cause of all misunderstanding.
by the time it reaches you it is something totally different.
it is something that your mind has made out of it.
Everybody is carrying his idea, his conditioning, his knowledge, his past with himself.
If your mind is put aside, my vibe will start stirring your heart, my being will touch your being, will trigger something that is fast asleep in you -- will awaken it.
disappear, don't come in between me and you. Let the contact be immediate, direct, heart-to-heart, not mind-to-mind.
Then you will not find any difference between me and you; then my understanding will simply be your understanding, without any transfer, without any communication, because then we will meet at the center.
Your body is different from my body; your mind is less different from my mind than my body and your body. Your heart is even less different than my heart. But your being and my being are the same;
If the disciple is ready to drop mind, heart, everything. then immediately he becomes the Master, he has arrived. Then there is no more to learn, no more to know, no more to ex- perience.
OSHO, I KNOW THAT SEX REPRESSION IS THE ROOT CAUSE OF ALL NEUROSIS, BUT THEN WHY DO I GO ON REPRESSING IT?
It is a good beginning that an intellectual understanding Is happening, but it is only intellectual -- it has to become existential.
transcendence is through sex. Sex has to be used as a stepping-stone.
life has to be loved because it is divine, life has to be affirmed with your total being because God is hidden in it. God is another name for life, another name for love. Life is to become your God -- then whatsoever LIFE implies becomes divine.
the farther you are away from nature, the more complex is the journey, the more difficult it is to come back home.
Lose your pride, let it become greed; lose your greed, let it become anger; lose your anger, let it become sex. Sex is the original energy. And from sex there is a possibility of transformation, because sex gives you the first glimpses of samadhi. Sex lived totally, sex loved totally, will make you aware for the first time of the peak moments, of the climaxes.
You are no more separate; you are not a person but just a pulsation, a presence. Sex gives you moments of that experience when you are simply pulsating in rhythm with the whole. That pulsation is what orgasm is all about, and orgasm is the window to samadhi.
what is happening intellectually now, allow it to happen existentially too. Only then the long long tradition of centuries can be dropped. It is an arduous effort, it is difficult, but it is worth it.
And once chunks of your conditioning start disappearing you will feel such freedom, such buoyancy, you will feel so weightless, you will start feeling wings are growing in you. You will start feeling that you can do anything; you will start feeling that you are entitled to do miracles.
And, yes, that's how it is: man is entitled to do miracles. But the beginning has to be a deep love for all that you are, a deep acceptance of what you are -- no denying, no rejection, no repression. Transformation has to be the key.